good god pande you got a handsome kid brewing there!
and that blonde hair blue eyes is out of nowhere??
great stuff...healthy and happy what more could you want?!
dang nmesh did i know you had a kid on the way.....ah the mind slips sometimes
look, you're a good dude.....you're going to want to give your all for this kid etc.
time is GOING to be lost there is just zero doubt.
your life is going to have a radical change - again, zero doubt if you truly care about this new role
your way of thinking will change - your view of the world will change
as a proud and dedicated parent - i wouldn't change a thing about it
sacrifice takes on a new meaning. it's tough and it's easy at the same time, if that makes sense.
you do what you have to do and then see what time you have left over.
now that's not to say you can't work to still make time for yourself etc.
just takes careful planning and consideration etc. and i think that many peeps are much better at doing this than me or something idk
also keep in mind that the life of a parent is ever evolving as your kid evolves
some stages fly and others take longer but all said it's a living breathing evolution for the whole family
right now my kid is getting to the point where he can entertain himself pretty well....and so that opens up more opportunity to get things done. before then, you had to watch a lot to make sure he's not getting into stuff, tending to every need etc. i'm not checking diapers all day as he uses the toilet etc.
let go of the fear. the joy that a loving dad gets from his kid makes so many of the hardships worth it.
time will be found - it just simply will be less. you surely will be working on music some late nights too
you aren't losing yourself you are just adding to it
you're still going to be the nmesh that we're all incredibly proud of and you are going to continue to push that forward
music is a part of you - there's no way that much can be extracted
did i just break pande's rule about advice etc. there?
lol maybe. i'm no expert that's for sure. but i would think that what i just said is pretty well within the realm of reason
